START HERE

EVOLVED MARRIAGE

GROWTH │ INTIMACY │ FUN

 

GRAB YOUR FREE COMMUNICATION BLUEPRINT

EVOLVED MARRIAGE

GROWTH │ INTIMACY │ FUN

 

GRAB YOUR FREE COMMUNICATION BLUEPRINT
GET STARTED

LISTEN TO THE EVOLVED MARRIAGE PODCAST

What To Do When You're Growing and Your Partner Isn't?

Mar 02, 2025

Moving beyond Roommates to Deeper EMOTIONAL Connection

Feb 23, 2025

CHECK OUT ALL OUR EPISODES 🎧

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT THE PODCAST

Unhealthy MENtality

BEING A LONE WOLF

  • You isolate yourself
  • You have a hard time opening up
  • You don’t have healthy male friends
  • You often say you’re “good” or “fine”

FOCUSED ON FAIRNESS

  • You scorekeep in relationships
  • Everything needs to be equal
  • Focused on what others AREN’T doing
  • You get frustrated when you do “more than your share”

NO OWNERSHIP

  • Others are always to blame
  • You don’t talk about your thoughts and feelings openly
  • You avoid making choices for your life
  • You often see yourself as a victim

CHOOSING YOUR FEAR OVER FIRE

  • You prioritize your comfort
  • You avoid doing hard things
  • You are a “nice guy”
  • You are obsessed with “solving problems”

BLACK AND WHITE THINKING

  • People are either with you or against you.
  • You often get defensive
  • You push your beliefs on others
  • Disagreements make you uncomfortable

YOU LIVE IN YOUR HEAD

 

  • Replay events in your mind
  • Need to know what others are thinking
  • Have a hard time being in the moment
  • Worried about how others see you

FREE GUIDE

Learn Communication & Intimacy Skills to Overcome your Roomate Stalemate

🔥Hold Space for Your Wife: Make her feel seen, heard, and understood, deepening the trust between you.

đź’¬ Ask for What You Want: Communicate your desires in a way that's exciting and inviting, encouraging your wife to engage with you enthusiastically.

🧠 Be Present: Get out of your head and show up as the healthy masculine leader your partner deserves, fostering a genuine connection.

🔥 Reignite Passion: Bring back playfulness and passion in your marriage, overcoming the Roommate Stalemate.

GRAB THE BLUEPRINT

If you're a High-Achieving Husband who feels more like Roommates than Lovers with your wife, 

You might just be a few skills and strategies away from bringing passion and playfulness back to your marriage.

Book your 15-minute "Breakthrough Plan" with Certified Master Coach Eric MacDougall

 

In this fast-paced Brainstorm, we will… 


📌 Look at how you Lead yourself and your Relationship to see what is/isn’t working.

📌 Review how you Communicate, Connect, and Build Trust to identify what’s possible within 90 Days and beyond.

đź“Ś Uncover the #1 bottleneck preventing you from having the intimate connection you want with your wife.

đź“Ś Develop a 3-step action plan to help you get the results you want in your marriage ASAP.

HEY THERE!

I'M ERIC MACDOUGALL

and I specialize in helping growth-minded couples turn their marriages into something really special. Whether your partner's on board or you want to take the lead in your marriage, I'm here to help.

Now, let’s talk about something we all face in long-term marriage—it’s called the "Roommate Stalemate."

It sounds clinical, but it’s really just that phase where you might feel more like roommates than romantic partners. Realizing this is happening is actually your first big step toward making things better.

It’s totally normal to feel a bit disconnected sometimes. This doesn't mean there’s something wrong with you or your partner.

Most likely, you just need a few key insights and skills to bring back that deeper intimacy and joy.

That's what happened in my own story. A while back, my wife, Kate, and I, though successful in so many areas of our lives, started feeling like we were just co-existing. I was so wrapped up in my work that I missed the signs she was unhappy.

Until one day, she told me, "I love you, but I’m not IN love with you."

That hit me hard.

That was the moment I knew I had to change, or I might lose her. I called it "The Start of the Solution."

I dove into learning everything I could about making a marriage thrive. I read books, listened to podcasts, joined groups, and got some coaching—I really put in the work.

And, you know what? It made a huge difference. It didn’t just change me; it changed how Kate and I connected.

Things felt real again, like we were finally moving forward together.

So, if you’re feeling stuck or want to make sure your marriage is as amazing as it can be, let’s talk.

I’ve been there, and I’ve come out the other side. I’m here to help you do the same.

Click below to reach out to me directly.

Let’s chat about what’s going on and find a way forward that’s right for you.

Let’s make sure the best years of your marriage are still ahead.

Talk soon,

Eric

DROP ME A LINE

Client Experience

Grab your FREE Communication Blueprint

GRAB THE BLUEPRINT!